Where exactly did you prove me wrong, Toni? We must live in completely different realities because I didn't find that ironic or cute at all. The deadpan way you responded. I just see a completely different reality. Stretching body holes get larger. I did the same to my asshole when I discovered my prostate, so I am an expert on that shit. You spoke of data in your first sentence and proceeded to respond in four word sentences that don't reveal much but your dislike of me. So yeah a different reality and I'm still in the original one where it doesn't matter if your're crude as long as you are right.
Unfortunately you are wrong. Your obsession with the stretchiness of holes is both uninteresting and irrelevant. It is bigoted to say that one would not want a partner who has had sex with someone of a specific race.
It is bigoted to tell me that I am a bigot for being selective about where my penis goes. As a white male I experience more bigotry than anyone out there lately. If someone loosened the hinges on a bumper car ride, would you feel guilty about demanding a newer, less ran through bumper car? And if you knew the rowdy kids were the ones fucking up the bumper cars, would you make a point to use the ones that kids haven't been in? I do have that right when it comes to my sexual partners. I get an inadequate feeling that I try to avoid, when engaging in sex with women who have slept with black me, and that isn't racism or anything else. That is called being human and having the right to feel. Keep up the bullshit.