As others have pointed out, lazy writing and remakes in Hollywood have been around for decades. No peeps until women are put into "men's" roles.There is nothing presumptuous or toxic about wishing better for women in film. Stamping "Female" on a film does not a good film make. An actual effort should be put into such films to do the actresses in them justice. Lazy writing shouldn't be excused just because a film stamps itself with a gender swap.
Bullshit. People criticize bad remakes all the time, and always have. The only difference here is film makers and some media responding to such criticism by declaring their critics sexist, racist, or whatever. You can't hide behind a skirt when there is no skirt to hide behind. A remake that puts another man in for a role that had a man in it initially has to simply take the criticism without the excuse of accusing the critic of misogyny.
And it is toxic to denigrate the women actresses and their roles just because of your values.
You should probably stop doing that then. As I wrote above, these women are talented actresses and they deserve better than to be given substandard scripts and production.