I agree that things like AA/DEI are a pretty ridiculous and clumsy way of dealing with racism. America has historically been much better at trying to manage the effects of discrimination than actually bringing the hammer down on the people doing the discriminating. Hell, look at Reconstruction. We fought an entire Civil War, then turned around, pardoned a bunch of Confederate thugs and watched many of them walk right back into positions of political power.
So instead of consistently slapping discriminatory behavior with the book, we eventually ended up with policies that basically say,
“Okay, since we're not interested in stopping those people from discriminating, let's put something discriminating on paper to give black people a fair shot.”
IMO, AA/DEI is treating the symptom instead of the disease. But I’m actually less bothered by AA/DEI itself than I am by the argument
always being about minorities getting positions they didn’t fully earn on merit. Especially considering all the white women enjoying its benefits.