One actually shoots to kill.
Wrong. You shoot to stop the threat or (in TX) to stop a robber/nighttime thief from fleeing with your stuff. If they die, they die, but you are not allowed to just execute them either.
Stuff like this is not allowed for example.
Murders of Haile Kifer and Nicholas Brady
The funny part is that this situation is the exact proof as to why wild vigilante style justice is very dangerous for the community. A kid died because another person thought they had the right to kill a robber.
During the robbery you have the right to kill the robber pretty much everywhere in the US. Fleeing robbers are a Texas specialty though.
And let's not minimize what it is like to have a 9 year old child die.
It's horrible for the parents. Nobody is minimizing that.
In most cases they just want to steal stuff.
Doesn't matter. If they break into an occupied dwelling, they are a threat per se.
Except one minor thing, when you escalate, you darn well be capable of finishing it quickly. Because if the robber thinks their health is in danger, that family of yours which wasn't ever in danger now could be getting introduced to random bullets flying in the house or you could be getting into a knife fight.
True. Upthread I posted an article about a victim shooting a carjacker in Philadelphia. Well, that was one of three carjackings in Philadelphia that day, and during one of them the victim produced a firearm, but did not shoot the perps and got shot himself.
Prioritizing the safety of one's family is quite natural. Assuming that escalating to deadly violence quickly is helping to ensure the safety of one's family is haphazard.
If people invade your home, you should assume they are a threat and treat them accordingly.