Ok, but if the universe is continuing to expand, hypothetically, could a line not be drawn following the reverse trajectory of every object, which would converge at some 'point'? If there is no central point, but objects in the universe continue to spread apart, in what sense are they spreading? Could two rocks floating in parallel be said to be moving apart? A single point of origin seems necessary in order for every object to be moving away from every other object.
Imagine a grid of galaxies, as if one were at each intersection of lines on a sheet of graph paper. And let's extend that sheet of graph paper to infinity. No edges.
Now we circle one galaxy arbitrarily, and say, "We are here. This is us." And we mark imaginary axes, horizontal and vertical lines, thru our chosen home. And label ourselves 0,0 (zero up, zero right).
Then we, in that galaxy, get our telescopes and prisms, and note that galaxy 1,0 is moving away from us at speed 1. Galaxy 2,0 is moving away at speed 2. Galaxy 188,0 is 188 away from us, and is moving away from us at speed 188. In fact every galaxy (for the purpose of this illustration, we're ignoring the local cluster) is moving away at a speed proportional to its distance.
It's as if they know where we are, and they don't like us.
So we certainly look like the center of the universe. The problem is that everybody else does too. We think galaxy 2,0 is moving up at speed 2, but, to them, we look like we are moving down at speed 2.
So how do galaxy 3,0 and 0,4 look to each other? We can find their speed relative to each other by using the Pythagorean theorem. (I put them on a grid for a reason, you know.) Galaxy 3,0 sees galaxy 0,4 as moving down and right at speed 5. Galaxy 0,4 sees itself as stopped, and sees galaxy 3,0 as moving up and to the left at a speed of 5.
Every galaxy, then looks like the center of the universe. Each galaxy sees the other galaxies as departing at a speed proportional to their distance.
In other words, there's nothing special about our location, or any other location.
So there came to be a term for this symmetry, this assumption that things would look the same from wherever you were. (Perhaps someone will tell us the term?) It became so ingrained an habitual that, for awhile, we assumed it applied to time as well as space. Hence, the steady state theory.
A firework is launched. When it explodes we see the flash and particles fly in every direction.
That firework expands in existing space. But, with the universe, what expands is space itself.
Imagine that you are holding the largest imaginable tape measure. Luke Skywalker (galaxy far far away) is holding the end for you, and you are holding the roll. You note that the tape is not running out; that is, he is not, in the usual sense, getting farther away. But you also note that the marks on the tape are getting closer together. The numbers are getting bigger. When you first looked at the tape, it said Luke was far far away. But now, now it says he is far far away plus 42.
But the tape hasn't pulled out. It is space itself that has changed. Is this a clue to the meaning of life, the universe and everything?
Not much of one, but it is one layman's attempt to illustrate the difference in a traditional (firework-like) explosion within space, and the expansion of space itself.