In John 3:16 we are told:
For God so loved the world that he...
You should have the idea. It's not hard at all to come up with love we would rather have than what John 3:16 promises us. The New Testament was created by Jews living in a primitive and barbaric culture enduring the humiliation of a powerful pagan empire having conquered them and occupying their homeland. For the Jews of that time love meant the freedom to escape their wretched condition no matter the cost. Such love has little to do with love as most of us know it today.
I don't feel loved by this statement at all. Among many other problems, John 3:16 includes a thinly veiled threat: Those of us who don't believe in Jesus must perish as a consequence. The last kind of love any of us need is a father's demand that his son die a cruel death to partially appease that father's vengeful wrath against us. On the contrary, I think anybody would prefer the following kind of love:For God so loved the world that he gave his only Son, so that everyone who believes in him may not perish but may have eternal life.
For God so loved the world that he...
- ...cured cancer,
- ...ended the Covid pandemic,
- ...restored the limbs on amputees,
- ...put and end to war,
- ...fed the hungry,
- ...granted love to the lonely,
- ...housed the homeless,
- ...and much more!
You should have the idea. It's not hard at all to come up with love we would rather have than what John 3:16 promises us. The New Testament was created by Jews living in a primitive and barbaric culture enduring the humiliation of a powerful pagan empire having conquered them and occupying their homeland. For the Jews of that time love meant the freedom to escape their wretched condition no matter the cost. Such love has little to do with love as most of us know it today.