Again, however, we all agree that you are correct within your usage of the words, and I cannot understand why you are unable to acknowledge that the same is true of DBT within his stated usage of the words.
Because his words are fallacious. It would be like asking anyone else doing any other sort of math to accept that someone else is correct under their own axioms when their axioms contain a claim of the truth of the axioms.
I will repeat that if you want to talk to compatibilists, the actual compatibilists that you are ever likely to encounter, the vast majority are "compatibilists" particularly because of how they parse modal language.
You came into this place and encountered a number of compatibilists, and not one of them is this silly thing you expect them to be.
Can you not imagine that this ubiquity of the difference of definitions might possibly stem from the fact that this, and not what you or libertarians imagine, defines the viewpoint?
When you speak of compatibilists, you have no less than THREE right here who all are roughly in the wheelhouse of "compatibilists because that other language doesn't actually make sense the way it's presented."
For the most part it is not merely that we think free will and responsibility are compatible with determinism, but rather that if the laws of physics and our structures as they were did not fix our futures based on the constraints these produce on the context around us, we could not actually be "responsible".
Moreover, this is the dominating view among compatibilists on Reddit and any other discussion platform I might look at.
You are sorely mistaken if you think that for some reason compatibilists have thought different, insofar as it's a very easy objection to the debate to find, and one I see regularly brought up.
If for some reason historical and ancient compatibilists somehow thought differently, some historical and ancient philosopher of some sort was right there arguing my version of compatibilism, most assuredly, because the menu is right there, the alternatives are right there, and the mechanism that is actually determining what one of those present options it's going to move towards is exactly that thing, even if that thing has weird statistical relationships going on.
Marvin Edwards, at least as long as he was active here, presented it in these terms.
And it at least
seems that whenever we attempt to address how people are responsible and what they are responsible for, it is exactly these terms and not the ones of the historic philosophical "ivory tower" debate being referenced. In fact, one of my tests to see if my language was correctly reflecting the sense of free will as matters to most people in everyday situations was to see if it had "symmetry" with that sense of usage, and if I could use my framework to get answers that matched all the clear cases and the known corner cases.
The problem here is then to argue with us about whatever, if you wish to argue at all, you would have to argue against what the people seem to actually believe.
If we are in violent agreement that the compatinilist terminology as I have laid it out is sound and makes sense and supports free will as pertains the thing people actually care about (that they have the power to make decisions for their own reasons in their own time, or to change themselves) and the reality of autonomy despite prior causes, and we are not in agreement over whether YOUR terminology makes sense, there might be a good question to ask yourself: does your terminology actually make sense?
Every time, every single time compatibilism says you are responsible for something, it shows you what of your nature you can change to address it, or what of your nature you can ask someone else for help changing. It can present this alongside the list of things people turn a blind eye to the responsibilities of, too.
If that's not the goal of discussing free will, to understand responsibilities and freedoms and how these create statistical dependence of outcomes on structural realities, then what is?
The same language that tells me I'm a machine tells me what magic is and how to perform it, in all sorts of ways, too.
I want you to abandon this language that convinces people all too often that magic is either dead or easy, though, because this "magic" is hard, and people will either never try, or hurt themselves failing badly, from either of those other views.
I have met a large number of folks claiming to be compatibilists across my life and through my journey, I have met
not a single one who believed that radical fatalism made sense. It's remarkable to me in fact how consistently they seem to form their views, in discovering and rejecting the modal fallacy.