Toni
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I have not had much good luck with NPs except for one at the practice where I am now a patient, but I have had nothing but wonderful experiences with the PA’s I’ve seen or more specifically who saw my husband. Wonderful health care workers.Not only that, but I will not continue going to a doctor who lacks empathy and knows how to relate to patients. I originally went to one doctor to have my knee replacement surgery, but didn't like his attitude. The one I ended up with was kind, and considerate and had a much better reputation than the first one. I do have some mild to moderate pain in my knees which is very common, but a friend of mine who went to the other doctor had much worse pain that made it impossible for her to exercise. Besides, I prefer NPs but they they don't do surgery. Sure, I've known one who was a jerk and didn't seem to be very bright, but she was the exception. I'm not a fan of PAs, as they often push unneeded things on patients. I've only known one who I liked.So are social skills and some degree of empathy, depending on the field of medicine.Social skills and empathy are nice to haves. Body of knowledge, ability to accurately diagnose and treat are foundational requirements.To add to this: for many undergrad students who are aiming for medical school, there is a strong competition for top scores, top grades, the most rigorous ( you name it) available—a kind of pseudo intellectual machismo.Some people do better on standardized tests regardless of their intelligence and educational background and if anyone did a little research, they would realize as has been pointed out a few times, that MCAT scores do not make a good or a bad doctor. Things like emotional intelligence, willingness to keep learning, being open minded as new medical discoveries take place are far more important than MCAT scores.
Plus, a a nurse who has dealt with both good and horrible doctors, imo, many doctors don't bother to learn much of anything new once they begin practicing. This, imo is very true of while male doctors, not all of them of course, but far too damn many of them. Gotta go. Have fun with this silly argument or find something better to do with your time.
This tends to produce students who are very very good at earning perfect scores but who do not necessarily develop good social skills, empathy, listening skills.
Patients do not follow the advice of doctors they do not trust. If they do not believe the doctor hears what they are saying and understands what they are saying, there is a break down in communication and the patient is less inclined to follow the doctor’s advice.